In our world it’s inevitable to have things you hate. Hate, maybe because you just don’t like that or it’s not your “trip”. Hate that leads to Anger.Hate that might cause of misunderstanding. Having detestation to other things is our choice and perspective.
| Saying "sorry" on the person you hurt is one of the ways to comfort her/him. It also shows how you down your pride. It is a simple manner that people should have. It's just annoying that, there are people that can take not to apologize on their mistakes. It's like that they don't even care, so why I should say sorry. Those people are the people that can't understand and keep on lifting their own chair. Maybe, they are shy to say sorry but that's the right thing to do. |
When people don't know how to say "thank you"
Saying thank you isn't that hard right. You will just say "thank you" in back to show your appreciation. Saying this simple words can make our heart fluttered. Actually we should use it in our daily life. If you don't know how to say thank you maybe you don't know how to appreciate things. Saying thank you is a respect to others.
When people use you as their instruments or sources
| Nowadays it's not impossible to encounter materialistic people. Materialistic in a sense that they need you if you have that,this but they don't need you if you don't have everything. Things around us may be a cause of our joy, excitement etc. but having a true friend is more than everything. It's like an obsolete things, after using it you just throw it or end it. |
When your friend has many secrets that you don't know
Having a secrets aren't that bad but it's just difficult that your friends have their own secrets that you don't know. That side may cause you to think what are they secrets, why they won't to tell me something like that. And it's just annoying if you know to yourself that you don't have secrets on them because they all know your secrets. Maybe their secrets are too personal but the questions that will come to your mind are "why? I can understand and keep it by myself but why they wont to tell me? Am I not trustworthy? For example, you are with your friends, many topics are discussing. All of the sudden they will talk about their secrets then if you asked them they will say " It's personal, I can't tell you" something like that. While they are discussing their secrets you're just like a baby that don't know everything what's going on (nganga) . | |
When people keep on criticizing others action
In our world, we can't avoid being criticized by the others. In every action there are opposite reaction. May be they will get a right or negative comments. Criticizing other people isn't that bad because it's your perspective and we should respect it if you also respect ours. It will just appear as a bad one if you exceed the limitations. Yes, that's your perceptions but you should be careful on words you used because it may cause of war and may offend the person you referring to.
It's ridiculous in a way that they even know you but keeping on criticizing you as if they are perfect. And may lead you to be conscious on every action you will take. Conscious in a sense that you will have a lot of questions in your mind like" Am I go with this or not?" It's very difficult to act if there are a lot of criticizers. And the most annoying is that even though you did well or a right thing they will still stick on the negative sides. Can't you stand on positive for better?
It's ridiculous in a way that they even know you but keeping on criticizing you as if they are perfect. And may lead you to be conscious on every action you will take. Conscious in a sense that you will have a lot of questions in your mind like" Am I go with this or not?" It's very difficult to act if there are a lot of criticizers. And the most annoying is that even though you did well or a right thing they will still stick on the negative sides. Can't you stand on positive for better?
When people around you are very sensitive and insensitive
| I also hate those people who are insensitive. Insensitive in the way that they always judge other people and say it directly without thinking that it might offend the person. They always say what they want. So disgusting! Arggghhh... |
When people don't understand others feelings and always stand on their side
Understanding is very important on mankind. If people can understand everything maybe there will no war exist. But this perspective can't apply in reality. I just hate when the people seem not to understand what you want to deliver. Even though you want her/him to understand but it will lead to misunderstanding. Understanding is a matter of listening and down your pride. People that always pushing their stands and not listening to others are the people that close-minded. They don't accept the thoughts of the others and keep on stand at higher level. | |
When people keep on bullying an innocent man
| Bullying is strictly a wrong thing. Bullying can be the result of someone's death. I admit that I'm a product of that. I just hate that because it cause a lo of pains. They don't even care what this person feels. They don't know everything because they are not the one that facing it. Yes, it makes fun but there are limitations that be consider. Bullying can be a cause of stressed and depressed. It can affect the physical,mental and emotional factors of the person. It can be the cause of the changes mostly negative. |
When people treat you as if you are not a Human
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When people can't accept and appreciate others effort
It's hard to do effort on the persons that can' accept and appreciate what you did. It s a matter of being patient? But patience cannot long last forever. It reduces if the person know that the things they did is useless. The persons that don't know how to appreciate things do only care about themselves. If you will not express your effort they will think that your are not worth it.
When people act like an immature kid
| The most thing I hate are the people that act immature as if they are still kid even though it's not especially those people who always want fan war. They always bash your bias for useless reasons. They always stick on the negative things that your bias had. They always comparing and want an arguments. Duh!!! wake up you are not a kid. Try to respect for others to respect you too. It's like the concept of Copy and Paste. If the issue was already solved here they are again wanted to back all the previous issues. Immature go to hell!!! Since you want war!! |